I remember having a conversation with my cousin in my early twenties when she was questioning me about why I wore head wraps all the time, and in response I told her of my objection to being looked at as an object of desire, she in turn responded with, "So, what the fuck you gonna do? Wear a berka!!!?" and in my rebellion I responded with "Yes!! If that makes my point!"
I found that I was living up to the restrictions and philosophies of patriarchal and capitalistic thought, and placed myself into an evolutionary cage restricting my feminine identity would only do my future a disservice.